I was listening to a video devotional about Decoding the Silent Man’s Language. At the end of the devotional, the speaker said, “The only time a woman can change a man is when he is wearing diapers”. This comment tickled me but there is some truth to it! Of course, I’m not saying that your man or my man or whoever’s man may not need to make some changes, but I do agree we (women) are not going to make him change. Now there is a difference between a man who needs to tweak some things and a man who you just have no business being with in the first place. Leave that man alone! But if you have a good man who may only have some rough edges, I am encouraging myself, my friends, my family, and you to stop complaining and nagging your man to make changes. Put a pause on discouraging him (taking courage out of your man) and increase your words of encouragement (putting courage in). So Ladies, let’s stop trying to change our man. Let God, his mentor, prayer, accountability partner, time, and emotional and spiritual growth develop so that the changes he needs to make become clear to him, and he earnestly seeks to make those changes for you and him.