Nagging and lecturing is a sign that you are more focused on the changes your spouse can make instead of doing some self reflection. You may be expressing your feelings but after so much of this they may be tuning you out.
A very common example is: A woman had been complaining for years about her husband making them late and not valuing anyone’s time but his. The last time it happened, she just left without him. He was hot, but was more respectful of her time from that moment on.
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Megan, a native of Kansas City, Kansas is an empty nest parent of three adult children Ayanna, Jonathan and Isiah. Megan is a Christian and active in ministry at her church Cornerstone Baptist Church, in Arlington, TX. She is currently a Doctoral student working toward a Ph.D. in Marriage & Family Therapy at Texas Wesleyan University. Her personal interests include independent film, music and marriage enrichment. Megan is the co-founder of the Minority Behavioral Health Provider Networking Group along with colleague Cynthia Thompson.