Planned Spontaneity in Marital Sex |

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13 November 2014
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Couple IntimacyMarriage Makeover Tip:

Keep the sex in your marriage fun. Always keep a good balance of predictability and mystery.  Thus the phrase planned spontaneity.  Just because you may have to plan sex does not mean it has to be routine. Planning the time means it is important enough to make it happen. Many couples I see have no idea how they got to the point of having sex five times per year.

Some ideas:

Meet as “strangers” at a hotel bar. Have a conversation and “get to know” each other. And leave with the “stranger” you meet to go to your room (that you already had) and have great sex.

Have sex all over your house. Take away the routine of only having sex in only the bedroom.  If you have kids get a sitter or trade off with a friend so you can have time alone.

Do some foreplay with each other, be romantic. Build up to the experience don’t have the same routine.

What do you think, did I miss anything? I would love to hear your comments, questions or thoughts.




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Megan, a native of Kansas City, Kansas is an empty nest parent of three adult children Ayanna, Jonathan and Isiah. Megan is a Christian and active in ministry at her church Cornerstone Baptist Church, in Arlington, TX. She is currently a Doctoral student working toward a Ph.D. in Marriage & Family Therapy at Texas Wesleyan University. Her personal interests include independent film, music and marriage enrichment. Megan is the co-founder of the Minority Behavioral Health Provider Networking Group along with colleague Cynthia Thompson.

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