Why be so rude and ugly? Just because you can, does not mean that you should. What is this world coming to? Where is the respect for one another? Every human being deserves to be treated with respect. Many marriages struggle primarily due to a violation of the respect principle. When you disrespect, you dishonor. And when a person feels dishonored they feel unwanted and useless in the marriage. The bottom line is; if you can disrespect one another, then maybe you don’t deserve to be with one another. Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt. This is the biggest lie ever! Words do hurt! Husbands watch what you say to you wives and love them even as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for it (Ephesians 5:25). Wives be careful how you handle you husbands. Submit yourselves unto him, even as unto the Lord (Ephesians 5:22). Respect and honor one another. Yes it can sometimes be a tough thing, however; it is attainable. It is according to you. How bad you want it?