How can I be sure?

How can I be sure

Why are we getting married?

How are we going to divide up the household chores?

Does religion play an important part in your life?

Do you think faith and spirituality are important in a marriage?

What is your image of God?


Are you a saver or spender when it comes to money?

How much do we owe in debts and what are our assets?

Do you want to have a budget?

Should we have a joint checking account or separate accounts or both?

Who is going to be responsible for making sure that bills are paid on time?

What are our financial goals?


Do we want to have children?

How long should we be married before having children?

What is your parenting philosophy?

Will one of us stay home after we have children?

What values do you want to bring from your family into our marriage?

Sex & Intimacy:

Are you comfortable discussing your sexual likes and dislikes?

What are your expectations of our sexual relationship?

Am I a jealous person?

Do I have trust issues or feel insecure?

What is your love language?

Do you think it is important to be faithful to one another?

Do you think we have problems in our relationship that we need to deal with before our wedding?

Do you think our differences will create problems in our marriage?

Do you expect or want me to change?

Are we both willing to work on our communication skills and to share intimately with each other?

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