Many couples fight over money. However, money issues aren’t usually actually about money. They are about what money REPRESENTS to each partner. Money could represent security, freedom, status, achievement, personal worth, pride, respect, fun, or many other things. Next time you are fighting about money, ask your self and your partner, what does MEAN to […]
Happy Father’s Day!!!
Father’s Day is the day that we acknowledge the contributions that our fathers and/or father figures have made that helped mold us into the awesome people we are today. As a product of divorced parents, who lived in different states, I can absolutely see the difference that occurs when having a father that is active […]
Happy Father’s Day
Note this was written earlier this week by Jeff, I’ve been out of town and didn’t set up my posts! Megan Lee Father’s Day is just around the corner. I feel like for better or for worse the significance of this day is heavily affected by our personal biases we have acquired as result of […]
She’s Cheating on my Friend!!!
Is it okay to withhold information from a close friend? Some would say; it depends on the situation. There are some that would answer; maybe. Others would say; absolutely not! What if the situation involved you knowing something about a close friend or family member’s relationship? Here is the scenario; you were close friends with […]
His Sister Hates ME!
I recently had a conversation with a friend about her boyfriend and his sister- this is how it went from her to me: I have been dating my boyfriend for two plus years now, I am in love with him and I cannot see myself dating or with any one else. I feel, as does […]
Marriage and Boundaries
Is it okay to have friends of the opposite sex when you are married? Is it okay to keep secrets from your spouse? Is it okay view pornography when you’re married? Is it okay to be facebook friends with your ex? There is not a one-size-fits-all answer to these questions. Each relationship has its own […]
What Drains Your Energy?
I don’t know about you but during the course of the week I find myself drained by the middle of the week. I started to think Hmm what bad habits am I doing that cause my energy to be sapped out of me like a vacuum. Well I can confirm about 2-3 of the bad […]
Can Married Couples Have Opposite Sex Friends?
Some friends and I were having a casual discussion the other day and one proposed the question, “Can married individuals maintain opposite sex friendships?” Of course we had some difference of opinions in defining this so called friendship. I personally believe that married couples can be friends with individuals of the opposite sex without them […]