Boundary Conflicts and Your Family
A common problem arises when returning home for a visit with your family as an adult. Even someone who is been on their own for several years can be manipulated into guilt by their parents. People who own their own lives do not feel guilty when they make good choices for themselves. They take other […]
Common Myths About Boundaries
Many people come in with issues dealing with boundaries. Boundaries affect every aspect of our lives and often determine how other’s treat us. Here are some common Boundary Myths according to Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend in their Boundaries Workbook: If I Set Boundaries, I’m Being Selfish (selfishness actually has to do with […]
10 Laws of Boundaries
Many people come in with issues dealing with boundaries. Boundaries effect every aspect of our lives and often determine how other’s treat us. Here are the Ten Laws of Boundaries according to Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend in their Boundaries Workbook: The Law of Sowing and Reaping (this law of cause and effect […]
Ending Jealousy Part III
Dealing With Jealousy You DO Deserve: There are times when jealousy is justified. Infidelity causes inevitable jealousy. You may think that you can’t continue a marriage once trust has been broken, but it is possible. These steps can be taken to rebuild trust and confidence in your troubled marriage: 1. Pray. Attend a church or […]
Ending Jealousy Part II
Dealing With Jealousy You Don’t Deserve Jealous usually comes from the inability to control another person. Women may become jealous when their husband notices other women. However they need to keep in mind that men are visual and notice women the way we may notice a great pair of shoes. That doesn’t mean that they […]
Ending Jealousy Part I
When your spouse tells you what you what to do, it feels controlling. When people take orders from their spouses they are contributing to their own domination. Despite threats to punish disobedience, they will most likely pout, get mad or withdraw. The best solution to change and stop domination you need to what you need […]
Stop Saying Your Relatives Are Crazy When They Seek Counseling! Black People.
Check out some of these statistics. And tell me why we bring each other down and criticize someone when they seek professional help. I have talked to many clients who are in pain, but don’t come because of family pressures and stigmas. We need help just like everyone else. You don’t want to go to […]
Are You Emotionally Healthy?
All people have emotional needs. Those who are emotionally healthy can get their needs met in a variety of ways and they are able to fulfill the emotional needs of others. Some examples of emotionally healthy people are: A person who can gain their own sense of self satisfaction from accomplishments Someone who is able […]